When I first got a smart phone I loved everything about it. Yet, I was concerned about how well it would stand the test of time. I wanted to know if it would crack, or would it break, and if it’d start doing goofy things. I just wanted to know that my phone would last.
Relationships are similar in the fact that we all want to know if our other half is going to be there for us in our times of need. Men, in fact, are very much like smart phones. What does one look for in a device? Something lean, cute, reliable and is very receptive, right? Aren’t those the very same things women look for in men?
As with phones, men are great when they do what we want, but make you want to throw them against a wall when they don’t. The best way to learn about them is to creep on them online. Find out how others liked them, what they are good at and what they are lacking. This is how you decide if they are going to be a good fit for you or not.
Sometimes you just have to mess around with them to figure them out, before you make the full commitment. Sadly, though, men do not come with owner’s manuals, instead it is like being handed a new piece of technology and having to figure it out all on your own.
Sometimes you have to push a few of their buttons to do so, but so be it. Sometimes they will get mad and shut down on you, sometimes they won’t work, and sometimes you are going to hurt them. But with the right fit, you’re still going to love them, protect them and keep them in your life as long as you possibly can, or until you can upgrade!